If you are thinking that your marriage might be in trouble, this is something to really consider.

Prioritize being loving, over being right.

Trying to be right and trying to make the other person wrong creates separation, not closeness.

Try to be accepting that your partner is another person. They are different from you, and being loving and accepting of who they are is more important than being right.

If all you’re doing is trying to be right and trying to make them wrong, you have a clash of egos which creates separation, and you just go down a slippery slope. We all have awesome parts, we all have challenging parts, and it’s better to be accepting and loving, than right.