Self-Sabotage #8 – Desiring Fairness
Measuring the “fairness” of every situation, and feeling resentful when others don’t comply with what you think is fair.
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Category: Relationships
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Self-Sabotage #7 – Assuming Responsibility
Assuming responsibility for the pain or happiness of everyone around you, makes you ask questions such as: “Why aren’t you happy? Is it because of something I did?” Continue reading “Stop Getting in Your Own Way…”
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Self-Sabotage #4 – Jumping to Conclusions
Assuming you know how another person feels, particularly towards you, and why they act the way they do, without bothering to actually ask them… Continue reading “Stop Getting in Your Own Way…”
Story about a marriage…
“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? Continue reading “Story about a marriage…”