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Jasmin Balance Picks: Real Love is a Choice

Our fairy tales suggest that happily ever after “just happens” when you “fall in love”… I’ve always said real love is a choice.

My wife and I have known each other since high school, but didn’t date until much later. We had only dated a couple of weeks before we realized that we were madly in love and wanted to get married.
I was all for it! I even suggested a spontaneous, immediate wedding in Vegas. (Seriously.) Kim, however, was a bit more practical about the whole thing. She wanted to take time to plan it all out.
I felt deflated. “We’re so different,” I said. “You like to plan, while I like to be spontaneous.”
Kim’s eyes widened. “I can be spontaneous!” she said, hurriedly. “I can totally be spontaneous. You just have to tell me in advance when you want to be spontaneous, and I will write it down in my planner…”
I gave her a strange look. She was totally serious! Clearly, Kim did not understand the meaning of spontaneity.
Funny as it may seem, the more I think about this conversation the more I’ve come to realize that planning to love someone–or choosing to love someone–is actually one of the most beautiful things about love.
I’ve heard it said that real love is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person.

Read the rest of this article by Seth Adam Smith, HERE
Jasmin Balance - Real Love is a Choice

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