I have a friend named Kathy who lives in Los Angeles and commutes to work with her boyfriend. Everyday she drops him off at the front door to his office, and she drives another half mile or so towards her office and parks the car for the day. She heads to work and afterwards she works out from 6-7PM. Her boyfriend gets out of work around 6:30PM on most days. Here is where it gets messed up. Continue reading “The Him/Her Balance: Keeping the Relationship on an Equal Footing”