Today I want to talk a little bit about the difference between women’s needs and men’s needs.

 
Oftentimes, we assume that the other has the same needs that we do, and it’s not the case. Here are a few surefire ways to repel your significant other.
Ladies, if you are doing any of these three C’s: criticizing, controlling, or closing yourself off, it’s a surefire way for your man to disconnect.
Men, if your lady isn’t feeling understood, accepted, or safe, both emotionally and physically, then that’s a surefire way for her to disconnect.
So it’s really important, ladies, stop criticizing, stop controlling, and stop closing yourself off to your men. And men, just get present, see your ladies, understand them, and let them feel safe to be who they are. That brings everything back together.