Self-Sabotage Solution #7 – Avoid Definitions
Defining yourself as “inferior,” “a loser,” “incapable” means giving a global and overly negative label to a specific behavior, and not defining your total personality… Avoid it… Continue reading “Self-Sabotage Solution #7”
Category: Self-Worth and Confidence
Self-Sabotage Solution #6
Self-Sabotage Solution #6 – Reality Check
Seek opinions from trusted people who may have a different thinking style than you. See if they see your situation from a different perspective. Continue reading “Self-Sabotage Solution #6”
Self-Sabotage Solution #5
Self-Sabotage Solution #5 – Think in Shades of Gray
Instead of thinking about a situation as a complete disaster, or a full success, acknowledge the various parts of the whole. Understand that life has few “flawless” moments, the rest are opportunities for learning. Continue reading “Self-Sabotage Solution #5”
Self-Sabotage Solution #4
Self-Sabotage Solution #4 – Compassionate Self-Talk
Once you notice your self-sabotaging moment, try talking to yourself in a compassionate, caring way, just as you would with a small child who is upset. Continue reading “Self-Sabotage Solution #4”
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