Self-Sabotage Solution #10 – Cost-Benefit Analysis
List the advantages and disadvantages of self-sabotaging feelings, thoughts, and behaviors. See if they are really helping or hindering you. Continue reading “Self-Sabotage Solution #10”
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Self-Sabotage Solution #9
Self-Sabotage Solution #9 – Stop Blaming
We are all just bundles of energy bouncing around trying to do our best with what we know. When we blame ourselves or others we create separation and lose a sense of what is most important. Continue reading “Self-Sabotage Solution #9”
Self-Sabotage Solution #8
Self-Sabotage Solution #8 – Look at the Bigger Picture
Take a moment to get out of your head. Picture yourself in your home, then on your block, then in your city, then in your country, then on the earth. When we can pull ourselves out into a fuller reality, we realize we may be making a big deal out of something insignificant. Continue reading “Self-Sabotage Solution #8”
Self-Sabotage Solution #7
Self-Sabotage Solution #7 – Avoid Definitions
Defining yourself as “inferior,” “a loser,” “incapable” means giving a global and overly negative label to a specific behavior, and not defining your total personality… Avoid it… Continue reading “Self-Sabotage Solution #7”