18 Ways You’re Making Life Harder is a must read! Print it, put it on your mirror to re-read when brushing your teeth. Focus on un-learning these unhealthy habits of your mind and EVERYTHING WILL BE BETTER.
1. You look to everyone else for the answers only you can give yourself.
2. You let others make you feel guilty for living your life.
3. You allow toxic people to get the best of you.
4. You are part of the drama circle.
5. You assign negative intent to other people’s actions.
6. You are too worried that people will steal what you have.
7. You’re trying to compete with everyone else.
8. You have been too much of a taker.
9. You focus on popularity over effectiveness.
10. You keep cutting corners and taking the easy way out.
11. You focus on every point in time other than now.
12. You are stuck on your mistakes.
13. You have an “all or nothing” mentality.
14. You expect life to always be happy.
15. You keep thinking about worst-case scenarios.
16. You’re letting loss devour you.
17. You avoid facing the truth.
18. You put off making decisions.
Click here to read the full article at The Mind Unleashed.
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Jasmin Balance Picks: Real Love is a Choice
Our fairy tales suggest that happily ever after “just happens” when you “fall in love”… I’ve always said real love is a choice.
My wife and I have known each other since high school, but didn’t date until much later. We had only dated a couple of weeks before we realized that we were madly in love and wanted to get married.
I was all for it! I even suggested a spontaneous, immediate wedding in Vegas. (Seriously.) Kim, however, was a bit more practical about the whole thing. She wanted to take time to plan it all out.
I felt deflated. “We’re so different,” I said. “You like to plan, while I like to be spontaneous.”
Kim’s eyes widened. “I can be spontaneous!” she said, hurriedly. “I can totally be spontaneous. You just have to tell me in advance when you want to be spontaneous, and I will write it down in my planner…”
I gave her a strange look. She was totally serious! Clearly, Kim did not understand the meaning of spontaneity.
Funny as it may seem, the more I think about this conversation the more I’ve come to realize that planning to love someone–or choosing to love someone–is actually one of the most beautiful things about love.
I’ve heard it said that real love is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person.
Read the rest of this article by Seth Adam Smith, HERE…
As the New Year makes its way, here's my wish for you…
May you breathe deeply, live intentionally and love exponentially…
Today and every day.
With Love,
Jasmin
Jasmin Balance Picks: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck
Love this article, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck… so funny and right to the point!
In my life, I have given a fuck about many people and many things. I have also not given a fuck about many people and many things. And those fucks I have not given have made all the difference.
People often say the key to confidence and success in life is to simply “not give a fuck.” Indeed, we often refer to the strongest, most admirable people we know in terms of their lack of fucks given. Like “Oh, look at Susie working weekends again, she doesn’t give a fuck.” Or “Did you hear that Tom called the company president an asshole and still got a raise anyway? Holy shit, that dude does not give a fuck.” Or “Jason got up and ended his date with Cindy after 20 minutes. He said he wasn’t going to listen to her bullshit anymore. Man, that guy does not give a fuck.”
Chances are you know somebody in your life who, at one time or another, did not give a fuck and went on to accomplish amazing feats. Perhaps there was a time in your life where you simply did not give a fuck and excelled to some extraordinary heights.
Click here to read the full article at MarkManson.net.
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