The #1 Killer of Marriages

June 12th, 2019

The #1 killer of relationships is having unrealistic expectations.

You think it’s supposed to be easier than it actually is. It started out one way and now it’s different.

It’s important to realize that relationships start off as passionate love. That’s what gives you the attraction. But, eventually, when you look at those old people holding hands while they’re walking down the road, it turns into compassionate love. And that’s different. That’s your best friend, your partner.

When you expect the relationship to be amazing, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment, because relationships evolve over time. Being able to embrace the beauty in the compassionate love, and the beauty in the peace, the ease of it, is better than trying to hold on to something that’s already gone.

Jasmin Terrany, LMHC

Jasmin Terrany, LMHC has a Skype based private practice empowering women who appear to have it yet still feel unsatisfied on some level. She helps women access their ultimate potential and take their lives to the next level in every realm. Jasmin is a Columbia University graduate and licensed psychotherapist who invented Life Therapy, the combination of psychotherapy & coaching with mindfulness & meditation.