Self-Sabotage Solution #7 – Avoid Definitions
Defining yourself as “inferior,” “a loser,” “incapable” means giving a global and overly negative label to a specific behavior, and not defining your total personality… Avoid it… Continue reading “Self-Sabotage Solution #7”
Category: Fears and Doubts
Self-Sabotage Solution #6
Self-Sabotage Solution #6 – Reality Check
Seek opinions from trusted people who may have a different thinking style than you. See if they see your situation from a different perspective. Continue reading “Self-Sabotage Solution #6”
Self-Sabotage Solution #5
Self-Sabotage Solution #5 – Think in Shades of Gray
Instead of thinking about a situation as a complete disaster, or a full success, acknowledge the various parts of the whole. Understand that life has few “flawless” moments, the rest are opportunities for learning. Continue reading “Self-Sabotage Solution #5”
Self-Sabotage Solution #3
Self-Sabotage Solution #3 – Examine the Evidence
Try to find possible ways in which your self-sabotaging thoughts may not be reality. Continue reading “Self-Sabotage Solution #3”