I’m here to talk to you today about how to get on the same page with your spouse. This is the first of three tips:

 
The first thing to realize is that getting on the same page with your partner shouldn’t be expected. You are two different people, coming from two different worlds, so it’s okay not to be on the same page.
If your spouse doesn’t understand you, it’s your job to communicate better. Communication is your responsibility. If somebody else doesn’t understand what you’re saying, that’s your fault, not theirs. So you need to come up with new strategies to communicate better so that what it is that you’re saying is understood.